HERE'S WHAT GUYS ARE REALLY LOOKING FOR IN A RELATIONSHIP

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Here's what guys are really looking for (but won't tell you).
When it comes to getting a guy to commit to a relationship, many women can't seem to crack the code and unlock the mysterious secret of how to make him want you not only now, but how to keep a guy interested and in love with you throughout (what you hope will be) your lives together.
As most of us have noticed, there are generally two types of men when it comes to their romantic relationships with women.
Behind curtain number one is the type of guy who is absolutely smitten with his girlfriend. He puts her on a pedestal, treats her like a queen, and places her happiness above his own.
And behind curtain number two is the type who's labeled a commitment-phobe. He doesn't appear to enjoy being in a relationship, acting as if his commitment is of the involuntary kind.
But while most women think that the second type of guy is in the majority, statistics say otherwise. In fact, the most recent Singles In America study from the people at Match Group found that 63 percent of Millennials "want to find romantic love", 70 percent of Gen Z individuals are "motivated to find a long-term companion," and "only 11 percent of Gen Z and Millennials date casually."
So, if Long-term romantic love is what most of us say we want, how can you get the guy you're dating to not only fall deeply in love with you, but make him want you enough to make a real commitment?
Basically, it all comes down to how a man views commitment.
To lots of guys, it's like cracking a combination lock; if the numbers don't line up, he'll be emotionally distant and unavailable rather than all in. He might even come up with several one-liner excuses that women undoubtedly find frustrating: "I need to focus on my career," "I just need space," or, "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now."
But these one-liners aren't lies.
He really believes what he's saying because the "numbers" of his commitment code aren't lining up.
In other words, when he says, "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now," what he really means is, "I'm just not ready for a relationship with you."

Location: Abuja, Nigeria

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